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Laser hair removal: Is it worth it? Here’s my experience.

Wednesday, March 3, 2021


I recently spoke about my laser hair removal experience on our Instagram stories, and was shocked by how many of our followers had questions. My hope is to answer a lot of them here. If you have more, drop them in the comments below!


I started getting laser hair removal treatments on my underarms in June of 2019. The treatment destroys your hair follicles, so that you don’t have to shave EVER AGAIN (hopefully)! The idea of never having to shave my armpits sounded amazing. So I went for it!


The process was supposed to take 16 months, with a total of 9 appointments scheduled 6-8 weeks apart. But the coronavirus pandemic put a pause on my treatments for a few months.


Does it work?

Even with a pretty long break in my treatment schedule, I’m impressed with how well the process worked! I haven’t shaved my armpits in months and honestly forgot that I used to have hair there.

The best part about it, for me, is that the dark shadow I used to have in my armpit is basically gone. The whole experience was pretty quick and easy. If someone is thinking about getting laser hair removal, I definitely recommend it. But you should be prepared for the pain.


Does it hurt?

I’ll be honest – yes. The first few treatments were rough because I didn’t really know what to expect.
It feels like a hot rubber band snapping on your skin. The actual laser zap isn’t that bad, but the heat hurts.

In my experience, the best way to get through the pain is to ask the nurse to do a certain number of zaps, and then pause. It was helpful for me to know I could count 10 zaps and then I would get a break. Some nurses said patients prefer to just do it all at once, but I didn’t like not knowing how many zaps were still left.

For me, each treatment included about 30-40 zaps per armpit.

I remember after my first appointment, my underarms were sore the rest of the day. And as I got used to it, the hot feeling went away sooner. After my last appointment, my underarms only felt hot for about 10 minutes after I left the clinic.

Putting cool aloe vera on the skin helped a lot.

What happens after a treatment?

After a session, you’re told to avoid sun exposure (my underarms don’t see much sun anyway) and avoid extreme heat like saunas or hot tubs. You also shouldn’t workout and should avoid sweating too much.

Post-treatment instructions from Ideal Image MedSpa told me there might be red areas around the hairs (which I didn’t experience) as well as the burning sensation that I felt. They recommended it could be alleviated with an ice cold washcloth.

The hairs are supposed to shed 1-3 weeks after treatments. It won’t really look any different than normal growing hair. Nurses who did my treatments told me I might notice some of the hairs falling off, but I never did.

I didn’t notice any results until maybe my fourth treatment. My hairs became very thin. For a couple weeks after a treatment, I didn’t have to shave at all. When I did shave, the hairs were sparse.

As time went on, I realized that it was taking longer and longer after each treatment for my hair to grow back. Eventually, I just stopped shaving.

Before my final appointment, there were about 4 or 5 very thin hairs that had grown in, but you could barely see them. It looks like all of them are gone now!

You get to wear some cool sunglasses to block your eyes during appointments. This is the machine the laser comes out of. Had to snap a selfie to celebrate my last session!

Isn’t it really expensive?!

Yes, this is an investment. My treatment was about $1,000. In my head, I justified it by thinking about all the razors and shaving cream that I wouldn’t have to buy. I just got a raise at work and decided to treat myself!

What happens if your hair grows back?

I thought this too! I also purchased a lifetime guarantee from Ideal Image MedSpa, where you basically get 90% off what a single treatment costs if you need another treatment in the future.

From what I’ve been told, hair could grow back during pregnancy or during menopause when your hormones change. So if that does happen for me, I’ll have the option to go back to any of their locations and get a discounted rate on an additional treatment on my underarms.

Have any more questions? Feel free to let me know in the comments.

How to shoot content when you don't have a photographer

Wednesday, January 20, 2021

We started this blogging journey only five months ago, so in no way do we consider ourselves experienced influencers (yet!). But we have figured out a few things that we'd love to share with others trying to create a more polished Instagram feed.

One of the hardest parts about starting this account was taking pictures we were proud of. We both have iPhones that take great quality pictures, but the issue was finding someone to take the pictures exactly how we imagined them.

Unfortunately, we live in different states so being each other's photographers is not an option right now.

Typically, Amanda's fiancé Justin takes her pictures (slowly creating a #Instagramhusband) and our mom takes Sera's pictures, but they both have their own lives and can't be with us all the time. Not to mention neither of them are photographers (or even remotely interested in Instagram)!

Getting them to set up the perfect framing and lighting was definitely a bit frustrating at first and while they're definitely learning quickly, we realized that we both had to figure out how to take pictures on our own. 

Sera took this photo using a tripod and Bluetooth remote (hidden behind her back).

First things first - find some inspiration

When you're getting ready to shoot content for your blog or Instagram, it's really helpful to know exactly what you want to accomplish. Often times when we go out thinking we'll just wing it and strike a fun pose in front of something cute, it doesn't always work out. 

You drive around looking for the perfect background, but you don't know what you're looking for. Then when you start posing, you end up feeling awkward and unmotivated.

Look on the pages of your favorite influencers and see what they're doing. Pay attention to their backgrounds (especially the colors), how they're posing, and what they're doing with their hands.

You need to make sure the colors and brightness of the photo will match your current Instagram feed. When we first started out, it definitely took us awhile to figure this out. If your feed is filled with bright, sunny pictures where you can see the sky, a picture at night probably won't fit, and the lighting in your closet just isn't going to match.

At the same time, if you are sitting in the green grass, it might not look great next to a picture of you in front of a red, brick building (unless your vibe is Christmas).
                                            

We have a bright feed, but our outfits are mainly neutral colors like beige and white. A while ago we tried to post some pictures in front of our dad's candy apple red 57 Chevy. The feel matched our feed, but the color was off. We ended up archiving those photos (yay for being able to post them here though!)


So the lesson is pick your location wisely. When you're on your own, simple backgrounds are usually easier. Often times strip malls have cute buildings and walls you can use. We also tend to pick walls that are a bit hidden so we're not as embarrassed (more on that later).

Here's what you need to do it yourself

When we're by ourselves, we set up tripods and use a Bluetooth remote to snap the pictures. It's easy to find super expensive tripods and huge lights, but here are the ones we use. 


Sera bought the Sensyne Circle Light (only $37) and it works really well, but we are not big fans of the remote that comes with it (lots of awkward moments posing without any pictures being taken). The CAMKIX ($9) remote Amanda uses is much better. It responds really well to the button so you can push it over and over to get a lot of pictures in just a few seconds. We really needed this because we tend to blink a lot (and laugh at ourselves).

Because the remote takes the photos really fast, it often captures fun movement that Justin and our mom wouldn't be quick enough to catch. So spin in that skirt & flip that hair, girl!

To hide that we're using a remote we usually put one hand in our back or jacket pocket. Here's a photo that you probably wouldn't notice was taken with the remote.

I'm hiding the remote in my pocket and have the tripod set up in the show about 6 feet in front of you. I'm right next to a pretty busy street. I was pretty embarrassed so I took these pictures quickly.

How to get over the fear of shooting photos by yourself in public

We get it, we were terrified to go out with a large tripod and take pictures of ourselves too. From an outsider’s perspective, it seems really superficial and we were scared that people would think we were full of ourselves.

It is scary! Some people will honk at you and yell things. But you can't let a little embarrassment stop you from doing what you want to do.

We still struggle with this, but we just tell ourselves that it’ll be worth it when the pictures look perfect with our feed. It’s all about what makes you happy, anyway!

In this photo I was hiding the remote right behind my leg. I'm sure you wouldn't have noticed that without me telling you. 

















What we’ve learned from starting this blog

Friday, October 2, 2020

While we’ve always joked about trying to build a following on our personal IG accounts, we never took any actions towards actually doing so. The idea for this blog came to us pretty randomly one day. 
Amanda sort of threw the idea out to me and at first I actually laughed about it. I never thought it was something we would ever actually do. But, once the initial shock value wore off it started to sound not just like a good idea, but like something fun, new, exciting, and most importantly, accomplishable.
We’ve always been the people to over-dress for occasions (our family always makes fun of us for dressing up to go to our own living room for holidays like Thanksgiving and Christmas) and fashion has always been something we bonded over. 
But, since we’ve started this blog we’ve learned a lot about how difficult the logistics of sharing that piece of our sisterhood can be. We’ve learned about the importance of an aesthetic and how to curate the feed to accurately represent who we are.
We’ve learned about color palettes and have driven around cities looking for the “perfect” white/beige wall to take pictures in front of. One of the biggest hurdles for us has been overcoming the embarrassment of taking pictures on a crowded street with people staring, wondering what the hell is going on. This part has gotten a little easier with practice, but the stereotypes of vapid influencers and self-obsessed millennials are still in the back of our minds. 
We’ve also learned A LOT about hashtags and the Instagram algorithm. Both of us have attended “Instagram Masterclasses” that have revealed the secrets to getting featured on the explore page, using hashtags to your advantage, and not being confused with a bot or spam account.
While we’re still perfecting our use of all this information to grow our following, our biggest lessons have been about the influencer lifestyle in general. This is time consuming stuff! It’s not just taking pictures and posting them. There’s lots of editing, curating, creating, writing, and learning involved. We’ve been extremely close our entire lives, but this level of shared work has brought us even closer together. We’ve learned to appreciate our relationship and make the most out of our time together. We’re so grateful for this new experience and are cherishing each day of this new lifestyle!

Hey, we're Amanda & Sera!

Thursday, October 1, 2020


We’re sisters born and raised in the San Francisco Bay Area. While we may look alike, and have been confused for twins more times than we can count, we’re 6 years apart. Despite the age gap, we have identical views on most, if not all, the important things, but the one major thing we differ on is fashion.

We have very different styles, so much so that when we discuss fashion the conversation almost always ends with someone saying, “I would never wear it but it looks great on you!” We’ve always been close, but when Amanda moved away from home to Wisconsin for work, we grew even closer.

We are constantly talking about fashion, whether we’re sending each other screenshots of recent purchases or FaceTiming in the dressing room of a department store, we always need the other’s opinion. We never buy things without consulting each other first — and we want to bring you on that journey!

Follow our instagram page @shared_genes for our daily fashion inspo. Which styles do we love right now? Which do we hate? How do you pull it off? We'll be sharing it all!
Need a link to something we posted? Want to collab? Or just say hi? Send us an email: sharedgenesblog@gmail.com.